Psychology says parents who are genuinely good don’t strive for perfection; instead, they aim to be “good enough” and prioritize bonding over control

Striving for perfect parenting can lead to exhaustion and guilt, psychology suggests. Instead of flawless care, “good enough” parenting, as conceptualized by Donald Winnicott, fosters healthy child development. This approach, focusing on responsiveness and allowing children to experience frustrations, builds resilience and confidence. Connection and emotional availability are highlighted as more crucial for children’s well-being than parental perfection.